Take the relationship patterns quizand see which one keeps choosing for you

Pick the one that sounds like you. Ninety seconds later you know which pattern is taking the most, and you have one move for the week.

Five hand mirrors of different shapes propped along a shelf, the middle one turned to face you
  • A woman at a cafe table passing a small dish back to her companion with an open hand

    People pleasing quiz

    You said yes before you heard the whole thing

    Show me mine
  • A hand holding a phone, thumb on the screen, the most recent sent message bubble highlighted

    Anxious attachment quiz

    Three hours, no reply, and a full character study

    Being written
  • A woman standing still in a doorway between two rooms, shoulders slightly raised

    Trauma response quiz

    Fight, flight, freeze, and the one that looks like manners

    Being written
  • A woman walking away down a hallway, a lit door standing open behind her

    Pushing people away quiz

    The week it got good is the week you went quiet

    Being written
  • A woman leaning forward listening, a cold untouched mug on the table beside her

    Codependency quiz

    You know whose week it is, and it is not yours

    Being written
  • A woman carrying a large box up a narrow staircase alone

    Hyper-independence quiz

    Four people were free and you asked none of them

    Being written
  • A woman at a record shelf with her hand hovering, unable to choose

    Losing yourself quiz

    Somebody asks what music you like and you pause

    Being written
  • A car at night with a folded hoodie on the empty passenger seat

    Situationship quiz

    Four months, no label, his hoodie in your back seat

    Being written

Lose all eleven, one dare a week.

Get back the parts of you that you filed down to keep everyone else comfortable. One small dare a week, and a number that goes up.

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